Good point.Increasingly, I've been thinking: what would it be like if I recovered tomorrow? Having faced years of teasing (some good-natured, some less so) for my supposed laziness, I would doubtlessly seize the opportunity to dive into a full-time job. With it would come status, security and a better salary, but also long hours, long commutes and pressure. Today I can work on my own terms, at my own pace, and I can be home when my son returns from school. Don't misunderstand me. Although I have a far better life—thanks to a supportive family—than many people with ME, I do want to get better. The problem is that the society that “healthy” people live in is just not that healthy. I am caught between the desire to be a “normal” member of society and a recognition that normality has its downsides ...
ME has forced me to embrace a healthy lifestyle: yet this should be possible for everyone, not just those with a chronic illness. But how many “healthy” people feel obliged to come into work when sick? How many “productive” people feel exhausted much of the time and are dissatisfied with the maelstrom of modern life? Is “pushing yourself” whether you are sick or well always laudable? It is unsurprising that there is disenchantment among many well people at the pressures of daily life.
Must remind myself of this whenever I wish for more time.He [that is, Tom Carson, Don's father] complained to Old Mr. Blair that “there just isn't enough time.” Always suspicious of lame excuses and of anything that even hinted at the suggestion that God could have arranged the disposition of time a little better, old Mr. Blair smiled, put his arm around Tom's shoulders, looked directly at him, and quietly said, “Tom, you have all the time there is.” That was all. (p. 28)
Mum used to tell us kids, “Work hard, and play hard, but never confuse the two.” By this she wanted us to know that while we were working, we should not fritter away the hours by squeezing in distractions and various kinds of play. The result would be poor work combined with guilt feelings for a job poorly done. Similarly, when we were playing we were not supposed to be thinking about work because that would dilute some of the regenerative value of downtime. But Dad never learned Mum's simple maxim. The total number of hours he put into his calling each week was excessively high, but occasionally—as much out of fatigue as discouragement—he would permit something else to intrude, and then feel guilty about it. Mum's maxim should be posted on the mirros of most ministers. (p. 93)
A way of funding writing in the future: pitch and idea and get people to support it.
Place where you can hire play equipment for parties, etc.
How to recalibrate the home button on your iPhone.
Unsolicited manuscripts accepted by Pan Macmillan with certain conditions.
Thought Balloon is a group blog in which the writers tackle a new theme every week? month? with one-page scripts. This URL is for their Phonogram ones.
How to sew a zipper on a knitted garment.
Issues organised by tale.
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I want to engrave a moleskine, but can’t decide what with.
Oh, and see what I just saw on another blog: http://mattiasa.blogspot.com/2008/05/modofly.html
(Mattias has some great art).
Great quote re: work hard and play hard.
Thanks for the link, Kathleen!