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Tuesday, 17 July, 2007

Warning: This post contains holiday snaps of our week in Jamberoo.

So we're back from a lovely time away in which there was much sleeping and eating and TV-watching and walking and shopping and hanging out together and catching up with old friends.

That's the summary. Now for the detail.

Monday

We meant to pack the night before but things were too hectic and in the end, we didn't finish the packing until well into Monday morning after our house sitter had arrived. It poured down in patches so we were able to get all the luggage to the car without getting drenched. Then we drove straight to Wollongong, swapping drivers halfway.

Leftover mango chicken (with the mango added) was for lunch and then also for dinner. We spent the afternoon unpacking, relaxing, napping (because Ben felt a bit sick) and watching TV. I watched She's the Man and really quite enjoyed it. (Note to self: remember to lend this to George.)

Tuesday

We slept in, then went and did food shopping. I was feeling sick by the afternoon so I went back to bed, reading comics (Ex Machina Volume 5: Smoke Smoke which I didn't get and Superman: Secret Identity by Kurt Busiek and Stuart Immonen which I absolutely loved) and doing more sleeping. The evening was filled with more television: The Simpsons, NCIS and Numbers.

Wednesday

My birthday! Ben had the best present ever for me: a CD recording of him playing the piano (original songs and covers, including “Simon Smith and the Amazing Dancing Bear” (which was performed on The Muppet Show by Ralph, Scooter and Fozzie). His other presents (which came later) were also fantastic: Wild like children by Tilly and the Wall, The Mysterious Production of Eggs by Andrew Bird (Guan's favourite Andrew Bird album) and a lifetime subscription to LibraryThing (woohoo!).

We drove to Berry, me getting nice text messages along the way and looking forward to donuts from the Berry Donut Van. But unfortunately the van was shut. We still had a lovely time wandering around the shops (well, I had a lovely time wandering around the shops; Ben just put up with it) and we bought a proper mortar and pestle from Haven & Space (which makes me feel like a real cook), clothes for Ben (who needed them; I can't remember the last time we bought Ben clothes), and a cable needle and beads from the craft shop (which was crammed full of knitting goodies and I was sorely tempted to buy a book on knitting jackets but I only really liked three of the patterns in it so it probably wasn't worth it. One day I want to make something like this though it would have to be thicker and longer and more of a coat and maybe not with cables—I just like the cut of it).

We had lunch at the Berry Woodfired Sourdough Bakery at Judith's recommendation:

Berry Woodfired Sourdough Bakery

The place used to be a surfboard shop and then an art gallery. It was quite a nice little café. We ordered pizza for lunch and it was delicious:

Seafood pizza

Here's us making faces at each other:

Ben's funny face
Karen's funny face

I saw these flowers blooming on our way back to the main street but I don't know what they're called. Crocuses?

What flower is this?
More of those flowers

At around 4, we drove home, then had a bit of a rest before heading up to Wollongong to have Japanese for dinner at Roppongi. Because there weren't that many free tables, we decided to sit in the partitioned off bit where you remove your shoes and sit on cushions.

Ben prepares to eat Japanese

The menu bore these three very strange items:

Drunker prawns??

We ordered sushi, sashimi and tempura and it was delicious. I think I'm close to declaring Japanese my favourite food.

Soya sauce
Ben in Roppongi

We asked for green tea for dessert but the kitchen had run out and only had one scoop left. So we shared that and also ordered a Japanese pancake at the waitresses' recommendation:

Japanese pancake

It had red bean in the centre and was quite tasty.

Thursday

In the morning we went for a short walk, enjoying the sunny weather and the landscape around us which was dotted with rather skittish cows.

Jamberoo scenery
Jamberoo scenery

I also noticed that the tree just outside the house we were staying in was rather popular with the local galahs:

Galah

This is one of my favourite shots from the holiday:

Galah

Then we hopped in the car and drove back to Sydney—to Burwood, rather—to eat Subway for lunch and see Ben's surgeon because he thought he had developed a second hernia. Since they were already operating on the first hernia, the surgeon thought we might as well do them both at the same time.

Afterwards we drove back to Jamberoo again, then got in touch with Simon who invited us over as Amanda was off at Mid Year Conference. We got a bit lost trying to find their house (especially as there were completely unfamiliar cars out the front of it) but eventually we got there. Tim S was also around, and he and Simon were laughing about the “cheese in a can” they had found at Aldi's: you squeeze it on like whipped cream. (Ben said it tasted disgusting.) Simon showed us wedding photos and we in turn subjected him to silly YouTube videos. Tim S had to bail but we spent the rest of the evening at Simon's watching Death to Smoochy.

Friday

After rising really late, Ben got an SMS from Jono saying he was free to meet that afternoon. I wasn't feeling up for it as we were going to be having dinner with the Roedigers later so he went alone up to Wollongong to have coffee with Jono and I stayed home and did nothing in the afternoon.

In the evening the Roedigers showed up with little Miriam who is bigger every time I see her. I made coconut chili basil chicken and vegie stir fry for dinner. It was great catching up with them as they are cool people we don't get to see that often.

Saturday

After sleeping in late (again), we drove to Wollongong, checked that the Asian grocery store was open and then went for a walk around Wollongong harbour, the lighthouse and the mall. There were pelicans down by the boats:

Pelicans in Wollongong harbour

The harbour was much the same, although Boufflers (where we used to get fish and chips) was now gone.

Wollongong harbour

I had fun taking photos of myself and of Ben:

Karen and the sea
Karen from above
Karen's smile

The lighthouse was there, as beautiful as ever. Being there brought the memories flooding back—how Ben and I once walked there at night and sat at the foot of it, talking for ages until it got too cold—that photo I took of him from below with the lighthouse in the background—the place where Naomi and us pitched a tent and stayed up to watch the sunrise on New Year's Day 2000 but it was cloudy and the sun was a no-show, and so on:

Ben and the Wollongong lighthouse
Ben at the foot of the lighthouse

This is one of my most favourite shots of us together:

Ben and Karen

And I have to say the lighthouse is an awesome place to take photos:

Karen at the lighthouse

Ben was excited by the ice cream truck but I didn't feel like having any:

Ben for ice cream
Ben and his choc top

Once in the CBD (if you can call it that—it's pretty small in Wollongong), I looked to see if the wall of faces near the Town Hall still existed. It did. Mark C took this stunning photo of Ben in front of it about eight years ago:

Ben's facebook photo

Ben now uses it as his Facebook photo. I suggested to him that we take an updated one:

Ben's new Facebook photo

We went poking around the shops—in Redback and the Rock Factory—and I found Bic Runga's Drive for $10. Then we went to the Asian grocery store and stocked up on food for steamboat. I kept fretting that we didn't have enough for six people but Ben kept reassuring me we did.

Strangely enough, none of our guests had ever had steamboat before. (Our guests were Simon, Amanda, Matt and Hannah. They brought me presents because it was a sort of birthday dinner.) None of them really knew what it was when I initially invited them. Nevertheless, I think everyone really enjoyed it and we ate ourselves silly and had lots leftover:

Steamboat

Simon and Amanda had to leave early but Matt and Hannah stayed around and we chatted (and then did the dishes) well up until midnight.

Sunday

We made a special effort to get up early to go to the 10 o'clock service at Jamberoo Anglican. I wanted to see what it was like. Funny enough, just after we had sat down, who should sit down behind us but Kara and her friend (we know Kara from Moore College and she spoke at EQUIP Women this year). They were also on holidays and visiting. I think our present boosted the congregation's numbers somewhat for there were only about a dozen people in the building. The challenges of trying to do church with such a small number became readily apparent, but it also meant that things were also relatively informal, with a short discussion time with set questions by the minister following the sermon (which was on Exodus 17:1-7). We hung around a little afterwards to chat (and the minister was really friendly—told us the next time we were down to let him know, and he and his family would have us around for dinner!) but we had to go because Pakman and Stacie were coming for lunch.

We served them leftover chicken zucchini risoni, then took them for a walk around Jamberoo. Pakman played us two new kids' songs he had written (which were awesome—I love the way he sneaks heavy metal into children's music) and then they had to go. We promised we'd see them at church later in the evening.

The afternoon was spent packing and cleaning—we vacuumed the floors and put the house back into respectable order. We had leftover steamboat for dinner, then drove to Wollongong to attend church at St Michael's, our old congregation. In three years a lot of things had changed and there were plenty of faces I didn't recognise. Sandy was doing a sermon on “Doctrines under threat” and the one for the evening was marriage. It was a great sermon—it was really clear and it helped us understand the biblical position on marriage and why gay marriage/de facto marriage/sex before marriage falls outside of that.

Afterwards we spent ages catching up with St Michael's crew (including Morwenna [who is getting married next week], Anne, Mel, Kester, Rob and Janet [who I had half a conversation with and had to finish the other half on Facebook]), then we went to Wollongong McDonald's for more hanging out with people (over Shrek flurries which were very very green).

At 11 pm as Matt was leaving, we decided to go home too. I decided that I probably wouldn't get another chance to have a bath (since we don't have one at our place) so I ran myself a bath and made lots of bubbles (I think I ran it a little too hot though!) We finished off the evening with the last episode of Northern Exposure Season 1.

Monday

An earlier start to the morning made us sluggish but nevertheless we managed to pack and clean up all our stuff and leave by about 10:30. We got back into Sydney as I was falling asleep in the passenger seat to find that our wonderful house sitter had gone but had vacuumed all the floors and taken out the garbage. I got distracted checking email so Ben had to make lunch and then had to go up to college to do research for his Old Testament essay but couldn't find anything useful so he came home and we did the grocery shopping because we had no food.

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Hi Karen, sounds like a wonderful holiday! Just thought I’d let you know, those pink and white flowers on the tree are magnolias.

Posted by bronwyn on 18 July, 2007 9:20 AM

Aaahh! Thanks, Bron!

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Comment:

/Karen/ said in Peanut (at around 18 weeks):

@Sarah: Thanks for the tip RE Australian Breastfeeding Association! I never would have thought to look there. Ditto KMart: I was wondering if they did since Target don’t.

@Rae: Thanks for the tip! I’ll check it out.

@Little Rachel: Oh, I’ll definitely be up for visitors! I may not be very good company (brain-dead, etc.) but I’ll certainly appreciate visits!

@Rachel C: CONGRATS!!! So excited for you smile Yours sounds like a good philosophy. One day I shall have to blog about Outliers!

@CafeDave: Thanks for the tip!

@Elissa: Thanks for your kind words! It makes me happy that you and Dave were excited we were getting married! Thanks also for the prayers!

@Elsie: There are lots of other lovely things I could have said about you, but let’s not overload my readers, shall we? ;P

Aww...thanks for the lovely things you said about me! I enjoyed reading this post (as I do with all yours). xo

Congratulations to you both. I know you will be such wonderful parents. You sound WAY too sensible! grin
(Sorry to read that there were some unusual comments made about your marriage! We thought it was exciting. We still have a lovely photo of you & Ben in our lovely box of special memories. (I was only 22 when married & I was 30 when we had Bonnie...)
Everyone is different! I nodded through your post. SO many people feel the curious need to share their “horror stories” which is just dreadful. I remember complaining to David who said - go find people who are positive & listen to them. Great advice, which I did. Those people still have a big place in my heart because their advice was honest & gentle.
Bless you & Ben & the little Peanut. We pray all goes smoothly over the coming weeks/months ahead. We sometimes forget what a precious little miracle life really is…

cafedave said in Peanut (at around 18 weeks):

Another book from the dad’s perspective I found helpful was From here to paternity - it’s an Australian book, and was followed up with a blog.

Rachel C said in Peanut (at around 18 weeks):

Hi!

I’m so excited for you reading your blog about being pregnant smile I am 13 weeks pregnant with #2. 

You’re so right about all the pessimism “advice” that you get.  I got so mad about it but never found a good response.  I’ve had such joy right from day one with E that I just don’t want to buy into the negativity (I’m sure kids pick up on it too!).

My philosophy was/is to be a relaxed mum and from that figure out what was best for my baby/child.  Get advice when you’re not sure on things or want to know how other people approached things, read books (loved Outliers!) that aren’t all about parenting… but just enjoy. 

In a sample size of one to date, I’ve had such a happy, chilled out son right from day one.  People say all the craziest advice… glad you don’t do guilt smile

With love,
R

Little Rach said in Peanut (at around 18 weeks):

Thanks so much for writing more! I love hearing how you’re going and all your thoughts.

After watching my sister I agree with you that it seems the first six months are perhaps the hardest. She got quite lonely at home all day; weekends were all right because then her husband was around but it’s just as you say… one feed ends then the next begins! If you are accepting visitors during this period then I hope to use some RDOs to come have grown-up conversations! smile

The book review of The Second Nine Months makes me want to read it now!

Names: We have one girl name that we both like and no boy names that we agree on. But they are also top-secret… so if anyone else uses them we can’t accuse them of theft! wink

Yay Peanut, keep on growing, can’t wait to meet you!

Hello! Thanks for sharing smile

Rae Green said in Peanut (at around 18 weeks):

I loved reading your pregnancy update! I am glad to hear that things are all going pretty well, and I hope the rest of your 2nd trimester is as good.

I just wanted to add, that some other blokes decided that there was not much for the fathers-t0-be, and made a couple of DVD’s just for expectant dads. They are called ‘Being Dad’and i think they are available at big W. I have both though, if you would like me to send them!

Just wanted to wish you all the best!
Love
Rae

re: gluten: no idea!! I didn’t have to go on that diet - it was probably related to the test I didn’t do.

At the risk of adding to your list of advice:

Re: maternity bras - because I’m big I had to look hard for something nice in my size and discovered the Australian Breastfeeding Association. They have a massive range online and most are (dare I say it) sexy. smile

Re: maternity clothes - Kmart have a nice range of basic stuff.. I only found out towards the end of pregnancy and I would have liked to know earlier!

Re: Parenting classes - if you’re at RPA you can just ring the midwives section (they’ll put you through) and ask directly.

Kathleen said in Beilharzen:

Congratulations again smile

Elsie said in Beilharzen:

Don’t laminate your ultrasound picture smile That is my advice.

Diane Lovell said in Beilharzen:

Congratulations! This is so fantastic! smile

Little said in Beilharzen:

Thanks so much for sharing all of this… people swap engagement stories but rarely pregnancy stories! And it’s kind of similar don’t you think, all this excitement leading up to a big day!

So happy for you guys! Actually never been more excited for anyone except my sister! I think it’s because I think that you will both be amazing parents and love the idea that someone could grow up in your family.

Looking forward to many more posts on the topic. smile

Jan said in Beilharzen:

Lovely news, Karen.

/Karen/ said in Beilharzen:

Thanks everyone! I will be sure to ask for help when I need it!

sammi said in Beilharzen:

Great pic!! Peanut is cute! :D
Praying for you all!
xx

Sarah said in Beilharzen:

:D
I had a similar sort of morning sickness.. except I threw up! I’m suitably impressed that you coped OS.. that must have been tough.
It sounds like you’re doing marvelously otherwise!
Book recommendation on something a bit less technical and a bit more human: ‘Birth’ http://www.birthnet.com.au/

Bec said in Beilharzen:

Praise be to God indeed!  Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.

Ben A said in Beilharzen:

Congratulations, Beilharzen! Welcome to the slightly-bewildering world of pregnancy (and birth...and children...). God has blessed you greatly with this new life. We’ll be praying for Peanut’s growth and development, and for you guys as you prepare.

I’m sure you’re surrounded by baby veterans, but always happy to help with books/advice/recommendations/listening.

B&L;

Fi said in Oblique:

Excellent job Karen! You SHOULD be pleased with yourself!

Have you discovered http://www.ravelry.com ? It is an excellent site with thousands of free patterns in its database, lots of support, tips, forums etc and of course - friends like me? Look me up when you get there - fionag77

PS Are you just wearing a bulky dress or are you sporting a bump under that dress?

sammi said in Oblique:

oooh.... It’s done and it looks great on you! xxx

Bec said in Oblique:

Well done on all that hard work!  It looks great and will be very snuggly come winter!

/Karen/ said in Fashioning (part 2):

Thanks for letting me know, Timo!

Timo Rissanen said in Fashioning (part 2):

Hi there,
Thanks for pointing out the shortcoming on our website. I’ll pass it on to my colleagues and hopefully it will be rectified soon.

The documentary at Fashioning Now was by Holly Kaye-Smith; I’d be more than happy to put you in touch with her if you’d like.

Again, thanks for the comment, much appreciate it!

Kind regards,
Timo Rissanen

/Karen/ said in Fashioning (part 1):

Thanks Mark! Much appreciated!

Mark Crean said in Fashioning (part 1):

Rich survey, Karen. Particularly I was struck by the notion of Jesus being clothed with our sins. I heard recently somebody suggest the crown of thorns was a kings crown but it was made of the symbol of the curse in the Garden - thorns. I would like to read your thoughts about Joseph’s coat of many colours.
Looking forward to the next installment. Regards,Mark

Kathleen said in Yvonne (Part 3):

It is lovely - and looks great on you.

You’ve made me want to read it - though I may need an interpreter at times!

Kathleen said in Bag learner (reprise):

Well done with the sewing!
I think it looks good - very relaxed and spring-y.

/Karen/ said in Creative endeavour:

Hey Sandra! Thanks for the tip! I read it yesterday, but I struggled a bit because Lewis doesn’t start from the Bible. I wasn’t convinced by his argument. What did you think?

Interesting post Karen - Thanks smile
I like the ending too! :D
xxx

Fantastic post, Karen. Just great. Thanks!

Thanks Bec! Eternal life just keeps getting better and better ...

I do like the way you ended this post - excellent thought.

Personally I don’t feel that way. Maybe that’s something you should blog about?

Wow. Lots of things to pick up on there. It’s been interesting to see the changes to your blog these last 6-12 months: Twitter is certainly more immediate, but are there (gasp) downsides to having its constant buzz in the ear?

Is our (already fractured) ability to concentrate on a single relationship at a time further jeapordised by the regular buzz of tweetdeck (and worse yet, by the imagined sense of loss that goes with being off the grid)?

Or am I just projecting my own fears?

sandra j said in Creative endeavour:

Hi Karen!
If you’re still thinking about this… I just read CS Lewis’s essay “Learning in War-time” which exactly addresses this issue (ie. how can we justify cultural & aesthetic pursuits when people are going to hell around us?).  Have you read it?  i’d be interested to hear what you think..
(i have it in his little volume “Transposition and other Addresses”, but it’s easily findable online)

Sarah said in Creative endeavour:

I’m doing my own series on the trials and tribulations of writing on my own blog here http://sedshed.blogspot.com/search/label/From%20Head%20to%20Hand
It’s coming along slowly smile

Coincidentily, I stumbled upon the above Phonogram vs. the Fans cover when digging around for ID concepts for Salt. A disturbingly brilliant image.

Thanks Karen. At the very least, this post gives some context to your myriad of phonogram tweets. At best, it has reinvigorated my stagnated appreciation of comics.

Seriously, though 4,549 words. Is that the best you can do? I say, longer!

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Why non-religious parents are starting to home school their children. Problems with American public schools. New models for education that will work (instead of just rote learning and teaching things to kids earlier).

Maybe discomfort is better for writing.

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