I need to get some of these things out of my inbox. But it's hard to let go of these random thoughts. A blog is as good a place as any to dump them so here they are.
11. True or False: Divorce hurts kids.
True. Divorce approximately doubles the risk of long-term permanent damage to children (E. Mavis Hetherington and John Kelly, 2002, For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered). And even kids who are not damaged are often hurt. In Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce, Elizabeth Marquardt reports the results of a nationally representative survey: 64 percent of children of divorce agreed that “it was stressful in my family,” compared to just 25 percent of children raised in intact married homes. Children of divorce were four times as likely as children from intact families to agree, “I love my father, but I don't respect him.” They are also almost eight times as likely to disagree with the statement “My father taught me clearly the difference between right and wrong.” Fifty-one percent of children of divorce agree that “There are things my father has done that I find hard to forgive,” compared to 19 percent of children in intact families. Forty-four percent of children of divorce agree that “I was alone a lot as a child,” compared to 14 percent of children from intact families. Only 44 percent of children of divorce strongly agree that “I generally felt emotionally safe” as a child, compared to 79 percent of adults who were children in intact families.
And finally, that thing I was mulling over with regard to applications of the talks at EQUIP I did end up blogging about over at CHN.
A way of funding writing in the future: pitch and idea and get people to support it.
Place where you can hire play equipment for parties, etc.
How to recalibrate the home button on your iPhone.
Unsolicited manuscripts accepted by Pan Macmillan with certain conditions.
Thought Balloon is a group blog in which the writers tackle a new theme every week? month? with one-page scripts. This URL is for their Phonogram ones.
How to sew a zipper on a knitted garment.
Issues organised by tale.
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You know, I think your point on applications is ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT…
it is probably even more pronounced at a women’s convention, because women respond so well to GUILT.
But it is a cheap trick and should be avoided!
Wow! Thanks, Michael!